Where to Stay in Paris: 2 Jewels

There ain’t no surer way to find out

if you like people or hate them

than to travel with them.

Mark Twain

Solo travel is a privilege and an education.  Once or twice a year, I take a “mommy’s vacation”–preferably somewhere I’ve never been before.  This is one of the ways I expand my comfort zone, open my eyes to inspiration and possibilities, and feed my joy.  I take time off from catering to everyone else’s needs, preferences, and opinions and pay attention to my own: when I want to wake up or sleep, where I want to go, what I want to do or not. I love traveling light with just carry on luggage and my own agenda–though “traveling light” is relative with my darling Mark III (aka, camera.)

If you’ve never traveled alone,  what better destination for a first solo expedition than Paris?  Like jewel boxes of delightful surprises, these are two hotels that I would be very happy to return to.  Click on “Leave a Comment” (above left) to add to your favorite places to stay in Paris and other destinations you recommend for easy solo travel.

Hotel Le Notre Dame (1, Quai Saint-Michel 75005 Paris +33 1 43 54 20 43) is a tiny gem updated by Christian Lacroix with a view of–guess what?–the Notre Dame.   Being in the center of the City of Light, there is no quiet moment if you keep your windows open, however, its interiors and view are like no other.  An easy walk to the Latin Quarter, St. Germaine des Pres and the Marais, this hotel let’s you trace the Seine to reach the Louvre and the Tuilleries, too.  On your walk back, stop by another jewel box with stained glass windows, the Saint Chappelle, to experience live classical music in a setting that moves me to tears.  On a rainy day, you can people watch at the brasserie downstairs while enjoying the biggest escargots in town.  The Saint Michel neighborhood is chockfull of restaurants and bars with a hopping nightlife for locals and tourists alike.  The metro and RER B train to/from the airport are right across the street.

In the cozy lobby of Hotel Le Notre Dame…

…Grab a velvet seat for a corner “office on the road” with a view.

Be the master of the stairs (because the elevator is tiny)

Room 31 at Hotel Le Notre Dame

For a more quiet and luxe retreat, Hotel Saint James (43, Avenue Bugeaud 75116  Paris +33 1 44 05 81 81) is the only chateaux hotel in Paris.  Tucked away west of the Arc de Triomphe, its water fountain welcomes you before its charming and elegant staff.   The lobby of bold black and white, velvet furnishings, and vibrant wallpaper throughout the 48 distinctively decorated rooms/suites are a feast for the eyes.  (Tip:  Request a room facing the fountain.)   And what’s not to love about their massage room with gilded mirror and chandelier?  The Champs Elysee and the Eiffel are about 15 minutes on foot.  A few steps outside the hotel’s gate is a metro stop I didn’t investigate, preferring to explore this city mostly walking, bathing in its renowned light.

Hotel St. James Paris by Sharon Birke www.PowerfulGoddess.com

The view from Room 306 facing the fountain.

Hotel St. James Paris by Sharon Birke www.PowerfulGoddess.com

Hotel St. James Lobby

Hotel St. James Paris by Sharon Birke www.PowerfulGoddess.com

Whimsy on the back stairs

Hotel St. James Paris by Sharon Birke www.PowerfulGoddess.com

Waiting room at the spa

© Sharon Birke

201 697 1947

http://www.PowerfulGoddess.com

Photography for the Goddess in Every Wife & Mother

xoxox

Waking Up Gently

Never work before breakfast.
If you have to work before breakfast,
eat your breakfast first.
Josh Billings

From Jon Kabat-Zinn in “Waking Up to Our Senses”:

We go from one thing to the next all day long, virtually addicted to distracting ourselves, afraid of what might happen if we didn’t fill it up, if we stopped interrupting ourselves and just settled into now.  We fill up our time and then wonder where it all went, why we feel so far from the mark, so far from our deepest aspirations, from contentment, from peace, from really being at home within ourselves and in deep connection with others.

What would it be like to settle into our own body, just lying in bed or sitting around for a few moments?  You can drop in on yourself and purposely not fill the present moment with anything, especially anxieties about the future and everything you”should” be getting done, or resentment about what has already transpired and hasn’t gone exactly as you desired.  You can play with seeing what it’s like to linger with such feelings and breathe with them for a tad longer than you are likely to think you can possibly stand.

Click on the “Leave a Comment” (above left) to tell us how you connect with yourself best in the mornings.

PS  Thank you so much, Powerful Goddess Gina Bonati, for gracing my blog with your divine beauty!

xoxox

Sharky

© Sharon Birke

Let’s celebrate you today!

201 697 1947

www.PowerfulGoddess.com

Photography for the Goddess in Every Wife & Mother

xoxox

Many Thanks, Many Mothers

 There is no way to be a perfect mother,

and a million ways to be a good one.

Jill Churchill

These photos of 5 generations of mothers are mere copies of photocopies, their originals lost to the gods of posterity.  In the first, I’m the screaming baby on my elegant mother’s lap and, in the second, I’m the chubby new mom showing off her firstborn to her 104 year old great grandmother.   These thin slips of paper are priceless treasures, photography’s unrivaled power to bear witness to our journey of growth.  I am thankful for the many women who have helped get me to where I am today with their love, example, and counterexample.  It all works and it’s all good!

My grandma taught me that gratitude is the key to happiness, my myriad talents are worth exploring without apology, funny is in the irony, and today IS the special occasion for my best dishes.  She taught me to be generous with praise towards myself when others can’t, to forgive and choose to put my attention on what I want more of.

My mom taught me to mind my own business and give advice only when asked, to celebrate myself instead of waiting for others to do so, to have my own money, to speak well of my husband and to be present for my kids.  And if I can’t be the mother they want, that’s ok, too.  One of life’s greatest gifts is that we all get the mother we need.

My aunts, my sister, my friends teach me the pleasures of love without obligation, to bring joy where I am and to welcome more of those who remind me of my fabulousness when I forget, to explore possibilities that thrill my heart, to respect other people’s choices because acceptance and breathing room feed the soul.

My daughter teaches me that no one’s ever too young to want to mother, no one’s ever too old for mothering, and no matter what else I do for my kids, I hope they see that in mothering myself they, too, are the first reliable guardians and mothers of their own happiness.

Happy Mom, Happy Wife, Happy Life!

Click on “Leave a Comment” (above left) to share with us:  How do you mother yourself well?  

xoxox

Let’s celebrate what you love about your life today!

Sharon Birke

201 697 1947

www.PowerfulGoddess.com

Photography for the Goddess in Every Wife & Mother

xoxox

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