Grace for Grace of Monaco

If you want to sacrifice

the admiration of many men for the criticism of one, 

go ahead, get married.

Katharine Hepburn


A film I’ve been looking forward to seeing has been thoroughly trashed by critics. When it was released at the Cannes Film Festival this month, the family whose story it’s supposed to tell declared it may not be labeled a biopic for failing to represent their version of reality “needlessly glamorized and historically inaccurate.” The director and the US film distributor want different finished versions of the film. The critics were extra harsh in their reviews of Grace of Monaco, starring Nicole Kidman as Grace Kelly. Geoffrey MacNab of The Independent was already gentle in saying, “Kidman excels in a role in which she is called on to project glamour and suffering in equal measure – and is never allowed to be seen in the same outfit twice.” 

Why so much clamor over a movie?  Why miss out on a good story by insisting on accuracy and perfection? Goddess knows more pedestrian productions based on the good old formula of sex and violence have made billions in box office revenues. Why not appreciate this film for the relevance of its story line: the human portrait of a woman as a prisoner of her (royal) circumstances,  striving to find her own way in the world as she reconciles her needs with those of her family and her man like this Powerful Goddess?

Casting Nicole as Grace is perfect with her regal air and elegant restraint.  As a woman, I admire her for shining as her own person, delighting in her own talents, and breaking free from the shadow of her famous ex-husband. I applaud the creators and artists who put their best foot forward with their best intentions in making this film. While critics may have their place in helping us do better, no movie, no art, no life would ever be created or lived if we were to constantly consider their opinion.  We must do what we need to do just as critics must do what they do–if they didn’t, we would have to call them fans!  Like Grace, we can choose to be kind to ourselves, be our own best friend and supporter especially when venturing to distant lands and new adventures far from the approval of family and friends. And please do so in great style!  I personally relish the thought of never having to wear the same outfit twice.

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© Sharon Birke

201 697 1947

Glamour Portraits of the Goddess in Every Wife & Mother

2 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Mountain
    May 23, 2014 @ 09:23:02

    I may or may not see “Grace of Monaco” but my movie decision’s are very rarely ever made by a critic whether it be a professional or just in conversation. I like to make up my own mind and appreciate what my own internal critic has to offer. I often keep my opinion to myself if I don’t have something good to say. As a side note, I also learned from one experience that being open minded about seeing a movie that typically is not your type, perhaps it is better to listen and just say, OK. That way at the end of the movie you choose you wont get “the look” because it was trash. The moral to the story…keep an open mind! So sorry about that…:)

    Beautiful Goddess and I love that little dress. If you Goddesses only wore an outfit once then how could us adoring men say…please wear that sexy little red dress with the low back, you look amazing in it! 😉



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